
Writer. Feminist. Survivor.
You can call me Tabs.
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“If you have a sister and she dies, do you stop saying you have one? Or are you always a sister, even when the other half of the equation is gone?” – Jodi Picoult
“She’s imperfect but she tries
She is good but she lies
She is hard on herself
She is broken and won’t ask for help
She is messy but she’s kind
She is lonely most of the time
She is all of this mixed up
And baked in a beautiful pie
She is gone but she used to be mine.”
– Sara Bareilles, “She Used to Be Mine”
“Every weight loss program, no matter how positively it’s packaged, whispers to you that you’re not right. You’re not good enough. You’re unacceptable, and you need to be fixed.”
― Kim Brittingham
“A flower bloomed already wilting. Beginning its life with an early ending.” ― RJ Gonzales
“I’m choosing happiness over suffering; I know I am. I’m making space for the unknown future to fill up my life with yet-to-come surprises.”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love
“Go oft to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
“You will lose someone you can’t live without, and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.” — Anne Lamott
“The purpose of a writer is to keep civilization from destroying itself.” — Albert Camus
Creative Writing
“I was mortified by the prospect of becoming hopelessly trapped in someone else's story.”—Lionel Shriver
“Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome.” — Isaac Asimov
“You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful.” ― Amy Bloom
“Use the darkness of your past to propel you to a brighter future.” — Donata Joseph
“Body acceptance means, as much as possible, approving of and loving your body, despite its “imperfections,” real or perceived. ” — Golda Poretsky